Wedding Day Essentials: What Every Bride and Groom Should Never Forget

02/07/2025

Wedding Day Essentials You Can't Forget: A Practical Guide for Nervous Brides and Grooms

Planning a wedding is an exciting adventure… and also a nerve-wracking one. That's why I want to share with you a super practical list of things you can't forget on your wedding day so everything runs smoothly and you can enjoy it stress-free.

I'm telling you this as if we were having coffee together, because I know there are a million details in your head. Here are the essentials you shouldn't miss, with tips that have worked wonders for me.

1. The Bridal Garter: A Detail Full of History and Tradition

You probably already know the garter is one of those must-have details. The good news? Many bridal shops give it as a gift when you buy your dress, so make sure to take advantage! You can pick a white one, add a touch of blue to honor tradition, or personalize it to make it truly yours.

2. The Veil: A Classic Touch That Never Fails

If you love a traditional touch, the veil is your best friend. Choose one you love and make sure it's securely fastened so it doesn't shift or bother you during the day. A good tip: ask your stylist or a close friend to help you put it on.

3. The Getting-Ready Robe: Style and Comfort for Your Prep Photos

The photos before the ceremony are so special. To make them stunning, pick a robe in white, cream, or soft blush tones. Personalized robes with names or dates are a beautiful keepsake.

4. The Arras: A Symbol of Commitment in Religious Weddings

If you're having a religious ceremony, don't forget the arras — 13 coins representing prosperity and sharing. Make sure you have them ready and designate someone to carry them so everything runs smoothly.

5. The Rings: The Center of Attention

It may seem obvious, but it's essential. Confirm the rings are safely stored and that the person in charge knows when to hand them over. This moment can't be missed!

6. Ring Holder: The Detail That Makes a Difference

It's not enough just to have the rings — they also need to be presented with style! The ring holder can be a pillow, a beautiful box, a decorated tray, or something personalized that reflects the couple's personality.

If children are carrying the rings, make sure the holder is secure and easy for them to handle to avoid mishaps. Plus, it looks gorgeous in photos!

7. Groom's Cufflinks: A Touch of Elegance

If your partner is wearing cufflinks, remember to check them and have them ready to add that special touch to the suit.

8. The Guestbook: A Keepsake Full of Love

The guestbook is a lovely way to keep messages and well wishes from your guests. You can choose a classic book or something more creative, depending on your style.

9. Something New, Something Blue, Something Old, and Something Borrowed: Tradition and Good Luck

This tradition is still alive and beautiful. The "something blue" can be any small detail, "something old" connects with family, "something borrowed" brings good luck, and "something new" represents the future you're starting.

10. Extra or Comfortable Shoes for Later: Your Feet Will Thank You

After hours in your wedding shoes, changing into something comfortable is a must so you don't suffer and can keep dancing and enjoying.

11. Emergency Kit for the Couple: Better Safe Than Sorry

Bring band-aids, needle and thread, deodorant, tissues, and any personal medication. Being prepared will save you from last-minute troubles.

12. Special Underwear: Comfort Above All

Choose underwear that makes you feel comfortable and confident all day long, without marks or discomfort.

13. Petals, Rice, or Other Options Allowed at Your Ceremony Venue: The Final Celebratory Touch

One of the most iconic moments after the ceremony is the traditional shower of petals, rice, confetti, or bubbles. However, it's crucial to check the venue's regulations beforehand to ensure these elements are allowed.

Respecting the venue's rules guarantees a harmonious celebration without issues, while adding a joyful and colorful touch that will be beautifully captured in photos and remembered by all your guests.

Extra Tips to Avoid Forgetting Anything

  • Make a checklist early and review it several times.
  • Prepare a kit with all these details.
  • Trust your close ones or wedding planner to help you.
  • Most importantly, enjoy and live every moment.

Want Help Planning Your Stress-Free Perfect Wedding?

If you liked this guide and want me to accompany you so your wedding is perfect, worry-free, and full of cared-for details, contact me! I'd love to be your ally on this special journey.